Tuesday, May 14, 2013

A Reason, Season or Lifetime.............

This puts into perspective what I've always thought. Friends come into our lives for a reason, season or a lifetime.

Reason, Season, or Lifetime Friends

When someone is in your life for a reason,
it is usually
to meet a need you have expressed
outwardly or inwardly.
S/he has come to assist you through
a difficulty, to provide
you with guidance and support, to
aid you physically, emotionally,
or spiritually.
S/he is there to meet a need. Then
 without any wrongdoing
 on your part or at an inconvenient time,
s/he will say or do something to bring
the relationship to an end.
Sometimes s/he dies. Sometimes
s/he walks away. Sometimes s/he acts
 up or out and forces you to take
a stand. What we must realize
 is that the need has been met.
When a person comes into your life
for a season, it is
 because your turn has come to share,
grow, or learn. S/he may bring you
an experience of peace or make
you laugh. S/he may teach you
something you have
never done. S/he usually gives you
 an unbelievable amount of joy.
Lifetime relationships teach you
lifetime lessons. Those things you
must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. You must
accept the lesson, love
 the person/people anyway,
and put what you have learned
 to use in all other relationships
 and areas of your life.
Source: Anonymous

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